August 11th 2010
Jim, Elise and I have been doing the same sort of programming for every workgroup that has come through so far, with a little adjustments here and there of course, to better suit each group. Every Thursday night of each week, we show "Waiting on the World to Change," a 20/20 special with Diane Sawyer from 2007. After we watch it, we have everyone group off into five or so people and they are presented with and given a few minutes to chew on the following discussion questions:
1. Jesus told His disciples, "You will always have the poor with you." What do you think that means?
2. A Haitian proverb once said, "God gives but doesn't share." Note: People who are know to say this have been people of faith, and normally poor as well. What do you think THAT means?
3. What will you take away from Camden and this experience?
4. Who can you be praying for? List their names.
Just a highschooler that came with the workgroup from Living Hope Assembly of God in Pennsylvania, Christi Peace had some wise words in her answer for the third discussion question. I asked her to ellaborate more and this is what she came up with:
"So, I guess this is for a blog and I haven't really written one before (except for a summer packet for English) so if it's boring or something, sorry. My name is Christi Peace and I just wanted to talk a little about my week in Camden with the workgroup. I came with my cousin's church because I was at a fundraiser. I saw a video about UrbanPromise and suddenly I felt like I should go. I made the right decision because this week has been great! I have learned so much; even though I thought I would be the one helping others, I have really learned from the people here. Throughout the week I have both made friends and in my youth group and in my camp - Camp Spirit. ...I didn't even really have to do anything to cause my acceptance as their friend. They have shown me that kids in Camden aren't so different from kids like us in the suburbs. They like movies and clothes and have complex friendships, etc just like we do. Anyone who treats kids in Camden like a charity case only needs to come here to see that this shouldn't be done. They have pride in themselves just like us and don't need pity. They just need good friends and a caring group like UrbanPromise to give them a good environment. They need to hear about God's love just like everybody else, and deserve respect. I've also noticed that a good way to connect with them is to show them that suburban kids like us don't think that we are better than them. When they see that you can actually learn something from them, I think it helps break the barrier. ...It just goes to show that every dark cloud there is a silver lining, and that God has a plan and is in control. If He didn't make them. ...Even just the cleaning we did like window washing and picking up trash (which was awesome because I got to use one of those picking-up things that you see convicts use) helps UrbanPromise with it's mission. In all, this has been an incredible week, and I will always try to remember the wonderful people and kids I have met here. And I will pray for them, that they will achieve their goals, stay on the right path, receive love from others, and most of all that they would come to know the Lord. ...As a final note, I'd like to thank UrbanPromise and its leaders like Albert from Camp Spirit, for all you do here. It's incredible how you interact with and care for these kids. Keep at it because you are making a huge difference in their lives."
Living Hope Assembly of God in Pennsylvania came out this week to work along side Immanuel Bible Church as well and here is what they wanted to say:
"Camden, New Jersey. Only a two hour drive from our small town but it seems as though worlds apart. A friend in our group came here on a workgroup trip through her college. A sheltered white girl who had never been, well, anywhere. She didn't know what she got herself into, but we all know she came back a different person. She fell in love with this city. We wanted to be a part of what was going on here at UrbanPromise and taking a workgroup was our opportunity. We came in looking to save. Looking to bring change. We see trash on the ground. The drug dealers and the homeless. As the week went on, we realized that we were building relationships, but although we wanted to bring change to them, they were the ones bringing just as much change to us. They changed our perspective on this city. We now see the beauty, the potential, people who just need a little hope and I feel like that's what we did this week. Whether it was washing a window, pulling a weed, or washing out a locker, we made a difference this week. Camden, New Jersey. This city no longer makes us think of shootings of drug deals but makes us think of Nay Nay, Boo Boo, Dashaun, and Rahmir and how in the short week that we spent here we impacted them, and they too changed our hearts forever."
Spencer from St. Matthew's Episcopal Church came the following week and here is his response:
"What will I bring home from Camden? I wish I could bring it all. The kids, the interns, the street leaders. The games, the songs, the bible studies. The devotions, the services, and even the work projects. I think it’s important, however, to not get overwhelmed by everything that’s happened. Yes, it’s been an amazing week but if we try to hold on to all we’ve witnessed, the most important stuff may just escape our grasp. That’s why this year, as I did last year, I’m trying to come up with the major lessons I want to leave Camden with. First, I’d like to remember what the real Camden is like. The general perception of this place is nothing like the real thing. Sure, driving through the rougher areas you can spot several police cars and the occasional drug dealer, but those are not the norm. The people of Camden are some of the most welcoming and friendly people I’ve met. Once I was able to overcome my prejudiced image of the city, I felt much more comfortable and at home. I’d also like to remember the strong urge I feel to continue volunteering. Putting faces and names to the immense poverty in Camden really helps give perspective. I can’t imagine the hardships that the children and families here have had to endure. It makes me appreciate the blessings I have been given even more. One of my greatest fears is that after leaving this place I will forget my desire to aid the people here. The transition back to living in a relatively affluent town can be a bit disconcerting, but hopefully that won’t happen. Finally, I really want to remember the hope and spirituality that I’ve found here. My pastor told our group that Camden is a “thin place” where the distance between God and us is unusually small. I could not agree more. The resilience of the students and staff of Urban Promise in such adverse conditions is so apparent that it’s hard not to acknowledge the presence of God here. If that resilience and spirituality can spread to the rest of the people in Camden it’s only a matter of time before the city takes a turn for the better. This past week has been a pleasure and I eagerly look forward to the next time I can come. Until then, these memories will keep me hopeful, spiritual, and vigilant."